The day I became a Mommy...sort of.

Yesterday was the big day – the day I became a mommy…well sort of.

Frank came home for lunch as he always does and asked (as he had been asking for a couple weeks), “When is your period supposed to come?”

“This week,” I replied. And went on to tell him that I would take a pregnancy test at the end of the week because it was just too early to test.

I had to run some errands so went to Target, grabbed myself some pregnancy tests for the end of the week and headed home.

I put my purchases away and then took a pregnancy test out just for fun. Might as well test just in case – it does say that potentially it can detect 6 days early. It was the middle of the day, I had had a lot of water to drink so there was no way it was going to be a positive result.

I peed on the stick, laid it flat on the counter, and washed my hands. There really wasn’t any thought at all in my mind that I would be getting my positive result – no butterflies, nothing.

I dried off my hands, walked back to the counter and saw one solid pink line and one very faint pink line.

positive pregnancy test

Was I seeing things? Did I read the box correctly that even a faint line is a positive result or was I dreaming?? So many thoughts went through my mind as I quickly picked up the box and scrambled to find where I had read about the faint line result.

But as time passed, the line got darker and darker and darker.

positive pregnancy test

I was pregnant!

It was really a surreal moment – and I still cannot believe it happened.

But for over a year, I knew EXACTLY how I wanted to tell my husband when the time came (I know, sounds crazy right?)

He had two rules for me: 1) I wasn’t allowed to tell him while he was at work or all he would want to do is leave for the day and 2) I had to tell him the same day I found out.

Thank goodness it was already 4pm and he is usually home by 5:09pm. I’m not sure I couldn’t lasted much longer! I texted him asking him if he wanted Chinese for dinner, convinced him to get take out, then headed to grab a bottle of celebratory…Martinelli’s cider. No more alcohol for me!

He got home and I had the table set and was ready to roll.

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We started with egg drop soup and it just wasn’t as delicious as usual so we moved onto the appetizer. We moved onto our appetizer lettuce wraps and I only had one small serving – I told him I wanted to save room for the entrees but I just couldn’t get myself to eat!

We got to the entrée and I only had a couple of bites. LONGEST. DINNER. EVER. Even though in reality, it was the shortest dinner ever.

I told Frank I wanted to do dessert after the gym but to cover our sweet tooth, we should eat the fortune cookies.

I placed them on a small plate, brought them to the table, and he immediately grabbed one. And that was it – the moment I had been waiting for (for a whole hour and 10 minutes).

“You will be a daddy in 9 months. Love, Your Baby Mama”

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I squealed with excitement and he grabbed me tight and we just couldn’t get go of each other.

Now what??

We headed to Barnes & Noble, bought $150 worth of baby books and headed home to browse through them all. Judging by the fact that both he and I slept through all of his alarms this morning and he got to work hours late, I think you may be able to tell that we had a hard time sleeping last night :)

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